Friday, 4 February 2011
Update on my progress
Just a quick update to let you know where I am personally with all this. I told my wife very early in our relationship what I want. She is shy and conservative and indulges me only in fantasy. She has said that she would try it but I think it is just lip service. Although it is a promising sign. She battles to role play and even when she goes out on her own she can't send me an untrue text like I have asked her to. That's why I felt that I needed a structured approach to this. Something to be done in stages with results! I hope that someone else will try this and let me know how it goes for them. By the way, I spoke to my wife last night about date nights and we agreed to give it a go. So Stage 1 complete! We already talk about the fantasy when we make love but now by splitting the focus between us by having our own date nights, she will be getting what she wants and it will make her more inclined to give me what I want when it is my turn. Everyone is a winner! I also have a great ally in this and that is that I have introduced her to "poppers" or amyl nitrate or butyl nitrate. For those of you who don't know what this is let me explain: It comes in a small bottle and you can buy it over the counter at most sex shops. A little sniff of this during sex changes everything - it is amazing. The best use of it is when she is watching porn and you are fucking her from behind - when she sniffs the poppers she will feel like she is the actress she is watching - it is awesomely horny and does wonders for orgasms. It is best to sniff it seconds before an orgasm. OMG. I have used this to great effect with my wife. I usually fuck her while watching a porno and when she is close I ask her to imagine that she is getting fucked by the guy on screen and then give her the poppers - her little pussy gets saturated and she comes really awesomely. I am sure that this helps to get her mind in the zone.